Blog steal: Words of wisdom from a man

I found this blog at http://indianfriendfinder.com/blog/1986/post_20248.html
(who knew indian friend finder could be so informative?) This guy speaks the TRUTH! I just had to share this. It is basically everything you need to know about men in 60 seconds or less.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man was nottreating you as you deserve then hell no,you can't "just be friends".A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing youalong, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it will get better."You'll be mad at yourself a year later for stayingwhen things are not better.Don't make plans around theirs, if they want to see you they will.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by abunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If something bothers you, speak up.Never let a man know everything. He will use itagainst you later.You cannot change a man's behaviour. Changecomes from within.Don't EVER make him feel he is more importantthan you are... even if he has more educationor a better job.Do not make him into a god. He is a man,nothing more nothing less.Never let a man define who you are.Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheatedWITH you, he'll cheat ON you.A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW himto treat you.All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.You need time to heal between relationships.There is nothing cute about baggage.Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.You should never look for someone to COMPLETEyou...a relationship consists of two WHOLEindividuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to beMr.Right.Make him miss you sometimes...when a manalways knows where you are, and you're alwaysreadily available to him - he takes it for granted.Never move into his mother's house.Never co-sign for a man.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give youeverything that you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others.And finally: if you find love let it go...and if it comes back its yours to keep.Share this with other women... You'll makesomeone smile, another rethink her choices, andanother woman prepare.